The intimacy deck

Take turns, and choose whether you want a Tease to playfully tempt, a Reveal to share something juicy, or a Risk to push your boundaries in the name of fun.

  • What’s something about my energy that pulls you in?

  • Do you prefer to lead, follow, or switch….and why?

  • Share a fantasy. Emotional, not explicit.

  • If we were a headline tomorrow, what would it say?

  • What makes you feel most powerful?

  • Give me a compliment that makes me slightly uncomfortable.

  • Describe me in three words. Then pick the one you think I already know.

  • What kind of intimacy do you crave the most that has nothing to do with touch?

  • What would it take for you to give up control completely?

  • Describe how I look right now…but make it sound like a wine tasting note.

  • What do you think I’ve taught you—without trying?

  • Admit what kind of power dynamic excites you.

  • If I texted you “come over” at midnight, what would you bring with you?

  • What do you think I’ve misunderstood about you?

  • What’s a fantasy you’ve never told anyone because you’re afraid it might be too much?

  • Have you ever imagined kissing me? Where were we?

  • If I walked away tomorrow, what would you regret not telling me?

  • What’s a secret you wish someone would pull out of you without you having to say it?